It does make sense must be how counsellors see abuse. She says Iv already stopped the pattern with my children on my own they will never be victims or pushovers! they won’t be abusive either! i cannot fathom why they wont change their patterns though? i find abusers to be miserable in their own lives why wouldn’t they want to change?

my counsellor basically said she pitied him as he must be suffering and have suffered due to unrealistic expectations about his own life. he has had his wishes unfufilled just as i have mine! Atleast i can see mine and get help though!

yes didi youve put it allot simpler than i have x

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