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I am sorry to hear about how your partner makes you feel, he sounds very controlling and financially abusive. Silence can be a very powerful way of trying to make you bad and as though you are the one in the wrong. It is so important to remember that your partner is responsible for his behaviour.

I can see that you have a therapist however, if you need to talk things through do remember that you can call the Helpline at anytime.

You will notice that we are continuing to have some technical issues, I am sure that the other users will around soon to offer some support.

Best wishes



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