It sounds like he is very controlling isolating you from family and friends. It also most definitely sounds like emotional abuse in a very manipulatory way, making you believe it is your fault not his. Some of the other the other ladies may be better to say but to me this malipuative way seems a very common tactic. The fact that you say your children cope better when he is not bombarding you to me shows ‘the bad parent’ he is, and screams out you are absolutely right to have them with you. He will want to make you feel that the problem lies with you these men are unable to see fault in there own behaviour. What does it have to do with him what colour you have your hair? It shouldn’t matter to him if you have it green with red spots! Even more so if you are not together! Have you thought about a restraing order? It maybe a helfull way of stoping you being bombbarded,? Please keep posting, there are some lovely ladies you will find great support in this forum.
Take care and stay strong. Xx

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