lover of no contact

yes its a tactic. He can’t get to you directly so he’s trying the tactic of ‘indirectly’ making contact with you. He knows if you have indirect contact with him (via mutual friend), he will get into your head space. His main aim is to upset you, you can’t control his behaviour, you can only control yours. Take the control back and block any mutual friends on facebook. Hard and unfair you should have to do that, but better for you that you have no contact with him whatsoever as you are not long away from him and thus naturally he still has the power to upset you.

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