Hi They are great at blaming mine also said it was 50/50 but also wanted me to talke the blame for most stuff.

He wanted me to scratch his car with a sharp object to prove i loved as this is what happened to someone we knew – what on earth does that show?????? I cant do stuff like that just to look mad or what ever he was trying to do. I understand that people do get to the point of destruction but to want someone to do it I find strange – actually while I am writing this I do sometimes want him to do stuff to prove he still thinks of me but there is no way O would ask him do that destructive stuff I would like something nice.

They do also try to paint your name black and Im sorry your sister was manipulated enough to cause a rift between you and I hope she now believes you and stands by you. Luckily I didn’t have that problem with people we know, for him however even though people still speak to him they know the truth and have all longed for me to get away, this includes his friends, joint friends and just my friends and family – hes not even aware of this.

keep writing on here and I hope you get support soon from women’s aid.
and hugs being sent to you


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