Hi tobefree It’s hard to know whats right and wrong in these situations because doing the wrong thing now may hurt your child later in life. I’v always been funny about fully cutting him off even with SS go-ahead because taking a child away from their father it socially wrong i get allot of judgement for it too.

One good thing about my situation is he wouldn’t have a leg to stand on in court! One thing i do say though is find your ground based on everyones best interest (look at your own too) the most damaging thing my kids were seeing was me becoming upset because even without contact he will get through to me somehow to hurt me. Stick to that ground because even considering organising something has caused my kids and myself allot of stress! If id just of said no in the first place it would of saved allot of pain! x

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