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Hi beanyboo22,

Well done for calling the police, it must have taken a lot of courage to do so. It is natural and understandable to feel a range of emotions after what you have experienced. Believe you haven’t done anything wrong, your partner chose to act in an abusive way which wasn’t acceptable in any situation.

If you would like to talk about what has happened then you could try to call the 24hr National Domestic Violence Helpline (0808 2000 247) again. They are a busy service but there is a voicemail for you to request a call back at a convenient time. This could be a good opportunity as your partner is not there.

You are doing brilliantly, give yourself time and take support on offer. Keep posting when you need to, the forum is here for you.

Take care,


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