Definitely abuse. Can you see how by using moods and making you feel uncomfortable, how he then gets you to do what he wants. Like giving up work etc. it’s manipulation. Ask yourself if you would have put up with this behaviour in the early days? Abuse creeps up and becomes our normal. Abuse always gets worse. Apart from that, you are just not happy x contact your local women’s aid. They were great. living with the Dominator is a great book. By Pat Craven. It explains the different tactics abusers use x

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