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Hi F1r3w0rks,

I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. I just wanted to show you some support. Please do phone the Helpline as soon as you can find a safe time to do so. They can help you get in touch with your local women’s aid group and can give you some advice and support over the phone.

Sadly anyone with any understanding at all about domestic abuse will know how cunning and manipulative abusive men can be and a Women’s Aid worker can help you with advocacy and help to explain the abusive situation you are in to any relevant authorities. We know that a tactic that abusive men use is to try to make you feel like you have mental health issues and to try and get everyone else to believe that too. Your local Women’s Aid group will be familiar with that and they will offer you guidance and help so please get in touch with them as soon as you can.

You are not alone, we are all here for you and understand your situation so please keep posting to let us know how you are.

Best wishes,


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