Princess huggybear, I understand how you feel. The slightest contact from my ex sends me in absolute meltdown.we have a young daughter together and I always worry he wont bring her back from visits.

They like to still play games to try and break us, not that we can be much more broken.

I cry as soon as I hear from him, I can’t do the visitation exchange as to just look at him sends me down.

Today my ex has my daughter and his 2 children from his prev marriage, my daughter hasn’t seen them in months and his ex wife was horrendous to me too. In my head he is again today, even indirectly!

Call the helpline if you can lovely, they are great and they signposted me to who I need to see about counselling etc. Big hugs lovely xx

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