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Twisted Sister
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their constant need to have you weak and needy to fulfil their sense of feeling important and powerful becomes ingrained, no matter what method they use to instil this sense of your ‘place’ in the relationship, the result is the same, you are securely attached and its not easy to simply switch it off. they have spent long torturing and teasing and it serves to weaken our own emotional resilience really badly, so first off … its a huge step that you came here to post that! and that you recognise what you are doing and that its risky behaviour.

Its a game of cat and mouse, but whilst you are still looking you are not looking after yourself.

Trying to put yourself first, before him, and his needs, is a strange and alien place for a while, but thats where you need to be, just thinking about you, as you know his inevitable journey already… he is just going to repeat, you are missing nothing, and yes its freedom, take it with both hands, even if it does taking a bit a lot of getting used to!

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