There is a few people I have started to talk to a few people. But to be honest I became so used to him asking who I’d seen what had been said, it was so stressful trying to remember full conversations and not knowing if I’d be hit for not remembering, that even though I have left him I still try and avoid talking g to people.as soon as I walk in I can hear him asking the usual questions he would always ask. So it can be very lonely especially when the children are asleep.
But to be honest he still keeps (detail removed by Moderator) so I quite like the security of being ng in the refuge there’s no way of him tracing me to address, and because we’re in a satellite property even if he was to find the refuge he wouldn’t find us.
I was so worried about moving my children to a refuge but they seem to be handling it really well considering the oldest was saying she didn’t ever want to go back from the day we left. Sorry I have been babbling on
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