Hi there,
Well done for posting and reading through definitely abuse and that old chestnut ‘too sensitive’ when you try to tackle the abusive put downs. Your last post is more worrying as he is showing some veiled aggression which may escalate. I suffered years of control and manipulation and my ex was very aggressive if things didn’t go his way. The situation with your ex won’t get better – they rarely change(read ‘why does he do that’ lundy bancroft – an eye opener if you are questioning if it’s abuse). It is very hard to think straight when you are constantly subjected to abuse. The helpline can advise you of local support which, in turn, will give you a chance to speak to someone about what’s been happening and what you can do about it.
Keep posting as the ladies on here can really relate to uour experiences and that in itself is a comfort that you are not alone x
