#6548
Daisy
Participant

Moon,

It’s scary the statistics for ladies dying at the hands of their partners, so please stay safe,
Read up as and when you can about safety plans, preparing for a safe exit if needed etc.
But it is not the impossible these abusers would have us believe.
All the fear instilled over however long, the cutting you off from people who would support you is their attempt to control you not escaping.
We are usually frightened and can’t see a way out but these men aren’t above the law , however they might feel they are.
Some ladies have reported that despite all the threats when they finally called the police their abuser soon became all meek and mild in front of the officer.others reported that they turned it round and blamed them , making them out to be the abusive one, you know him best moon so are better placed to judge,but mostly I want to at least reassure you that it is possible to break away safely and also that you are important and deserve more than to be treated as you are and your daughter deserves to not herself worry about her precious mum being hurt
X x x

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