Hi Oknow

I can see where your coming from I also put my ex before my children and everyone else.
I have since drawn on my relationship with my grown up children and I have said sorry to them for what I put them though. My daughter was the hardest one as she was the one that couldn’t live with us when we moved back in with him years ago – yes I have lived with him twice and both times he cheated and I had to be the one to move out – nice.
I cry with both my children now if I need to as that way they can see the pain and see how I and them were effected. Both of them now hate my ex and speak in an angry manner about him.

I wish you all the best


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