Hi Moon
Not only do you need to be safe but so does your daughter and you both living in those conditions is not good. Even if he is calmer now that doesnt mean he will be forever.
Eveyone told me to think of my kids (they arent his) and I was torn because I loved him and I loved my children. However for the (detail removed by Moderator) decades we were together I put him first so to turn that around is the hardest thing to do. In the end I left but I felt like it was for everyone else and not myself but I know unitl I have gone though this awful feeling and let him go emotionally I will stay in limbo for awhile. I left about (detail removed by Moderator) months ago and havnt had any contact at all that hurts to however he does have another woman and looks very happy.

I stayed in the same area but I think that was where I was from and he should leave but I know he wont well not yet anyway. It is hard living in the same area for me as I dont do the things I used to do for fear of seeing him not because Im scared of him but because I miss him so much and I dont want to break in front of him as that would give him ultimate power over me and my god he would gloat even though I havnt done anything wrong.

Please please stay safe and remember you are your daughter are very important and dont need a man like that around. Sending you a massive HUG xx

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