Hi East17.

Im a (detail removed by moderator) decade and as the KIP and Falling Skys has said we dont realise and it is the norm or us so we dont question whats going on a light bulb moment or someone professional points it out. People around me did say he was controlling but I made up excuses and I didnt really see it until much later into our relationship.

As Falling Skys said keep a log it is really hopeful and you can start to piece more things together and if you get divorced it might help with that too.

You are defiantly not responsible for his way of being he is an adult and cam take of himself he did it before he can do it again.

Stay strong and like the others say get some distance and break free.

lots of love xx

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