I agree with so much that you write. The more I read this forum, the more and more everything is repeated. Abusers all act in the same way and we all respond in similar ways. It is just so sad.

We can all recover to some extent nut I wonder if I will ever view men in a positive way again. I cannot ever see me allowing myself to choose someone else as I have messed it too many times. My most recent ex almost finished me off. Although I have done lots of positive things since leaving,I am still terribly lonely.

Take care and know that I really value your wise words and reassurance.


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