Tamara is right. They never change. He’s thriving off the power and control he has over you. It’s making him feel strong and sucking the life from you. He’s in his element. He’s going nowhere voluntarily. Tell your solicitor you are in extreme danger and want this mess sorted now. I know how hard it is to leave your home. I was told to leave, that I was in danger but I was so muddled with the abuse, I couldn’t see the danger I was in. He attacked me, was arrested and bailed. Don’t let it get that far. Also, your son will see this behaviour and think it’s normal and acceptable. Take care. Remember 2 women a week are killed by their current or ex partner. Stay safe❤️

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