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Hi Falling Skys,

The women are all right, plus it was wrong of your solicitor to tell you to stay put. It might financially be better but when there is domestic abuse that is unsafe to do. I think a good step for you to take would be to call the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247 and speak to worker there about the situation. Like you said above, sometimes you can see the situation clearly until you speak to someone and then it becomes clear. You’re living with this abuse day in day out, your vision is blurred. You are at risk there and not happy. Things don’t necessarily need to be this way.

Well done for speaking out to us. These steps are all a valuable part of making positive changes.

Best wishes


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