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Hi Freedoms,

It is completely understandable that you are feeling low and frustrated, it is difficult when you can’t be honest with your child about what has happened. Try not to worry too much about what social services have written, you know what is best for you and your child right now and if you feel that you don’t want to have contact then that is what you need to do.

It sounds like you have come really far and are progressing really well so try and focus on that. You may feel nervous about having everything you are building taken away from you but if you can stay no contact with your ex then you should be able to continue progressing and moving on. Don’t loose sight of how far you’ve come. You should be proud of yourself, you are doing a great job.

Best wishes


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