7th January 2016 at 11:32 pm
#7276
Winterblues2
Participant
My ex also used to use the term ‘gay’ as his choice of derogatory insult. He too had an interest in given anal sex (although it never happened).
I suspect that he was sexually abused by a male in a position of trust as a child as he has a distrust of everyone, significant levels of denial and an obsessive belief that any male in contact with our children will sexually abuse them if given the chance.
So I wonder, as somebody else suggested, if he is using his one weak point as a way to abuse others.