Thank you all so much. I have to be careful when I log on so I don’t get on here as much as I would like to.

I’m really grateful to you all for taking the time to reply to me. It means a lot to me.

I’m torn between believing that he is using my past to get to me and wondering if he really is bi (curious at least).

Maybe I’m hoping that he is so that I feel I have a valid reason for ending the relationship (in my head that is) – we wouldn’t have to hate each other and could coparent the kids together? I am aware how totally ludicrous it is to hope your husband is gay so you can leave him! When did my life come to this?!

I guess unless I ask him I’m never going to know. Not sure I have the energy for that conversation!!


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