Hi Foggy,

You say that you wonder whether he was just a sensitive man.

But this is the crux of it. Abusers have fragile egos and cannot bear any criticism- even if it is justifiable.

However, if truly is a case of one rule for them, and another for other people : they most often have a chip on their shoulder, are mistrustful and envious of other people, quick to judge and to defame others.

We, however, are meant to overlook their behaviour, however bad.

A relationship with an abuser is not an equal one x

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