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It’s great news Doglover99. I agree with what the others have said, don’t tell him anything. He doesn’t need to know until you are out of the door and safe. Try and keep everything quiet, the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the woman is leaving. That’s when your partner will realise he is losing control and has less to lose.

I hope everything goes well with the viewing. Like KIP said, unless there’s a bit reason take what you can get. Any home free of abuse is better than your situation now.

Best wishes


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