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Confused123
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HI Hun

When they begin to control what we do it is abuse even though a lot of ladies dont recognise it, please get support and try leave him if u have gone back to him, this is there game when they sense we r going to leave or have had enough they sudddenly become mr nice and we fallin love again thinkingits going to be ok, from experience of been with an abuser for way too long, now that im out i can see how he could see when he had broken mentally and push me too far, that wasnt enough to stop just to give me a tempoary break and mess with my head more, they stress us out so much, when a guy truly loves you, respect and trust is important, he ahs to freely allow you to do what you want, when he stops u from seeing friends and family his trying to isolate you cause he knows is treating u wrong, call womens aid for further advise or post on her, you are experiencing trauma bonding thats why you keep going back, with the right support which you will get loads on here, we will support you to keep away, i am out a year now and it has been a long ride of me missing him like crazy, wishing we could be togheter, but with support of these lovely ladies on here and reading up on abuse u learn to stay away even if u have to force yourself , read why does he do it by lundy buncroft, u willbe shocked how much u can relate to, u not alone hun

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