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Don’t feel silly pixiedust, you are right to have come on this forum, from what you have described you are definitely suffering domestic abuse. Your partner is making you question what is happening by trying to turn the blame around on you. Oh course he was the modal boyfriend at the beginning, he needed to hook you in.

It’s great that you have come on here to talk about what is happening, it shows you want to make a change and are starting to accept that what your partner is doing is wrong. I think a good first step is to contact the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247. They have profesional workers who are trained in domestic abuse and just to have an initial first conversation with someone might help you realise a bit more your situation and your options.

Coming on here and posting is a great first step. I can see that you have already had some great information and support. Welcome to the forum!

Best wishes


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