KIP I felt exactly the same when he moved back in, I hated every minute. unfortunately it’s a joint mortgage even though he hasn’t paid anything since last July and still isn’t.And thank you confused, I will keep trying, I’ll find the strength from somewhere, probably from being on here. Sometimes I feel guilty for not forgiving him and I’m a bag of nerves, he tells me to forget the past and move forward together but I just can’t. I cannot forget the awful things he has done. I don’t want to end up a bitter person, but feel like I am getting that way, the feeling of being trapped is horrendous and i really feel for all women in situations like this. I’m lucky he has never hit me, but that’s the only thing he hasn’t done. Thank you again for your advice xx

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