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Hi WhiteRose,

I am sorry you are having such a stressful time. I just wanted to show you some support and to say that you are doing brilliantly. Keep doing what you are doing, he is determined to get a rise out of you and so please keep strong and remain no contact. He is probably getting desperate and that is why he is now trying to use your daughter to get a reaction from you.

Perhaps you could consider blocking his number completely from your phone and ask a friend to open any emails that supposedly relate to child contact so that she can tell you the content only relating to child contact so that you are protecting yourself? Please do report him to the Police on 101 if any of his contact is aggressive or threatening at all.

Keep getting plenty of support from your local Women’s Aid group and from here. You are doing brilliantly.

Best wishes,


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