Two things I feel help here,
If a stranger treated you in any such way, what would you do ?
And if I told you your story as if it was happening to me- what would you advise me to do?
Sometimes when we take out the person and emotions like loyalty, etc and just concentrate on the abuse/ crimes they dished out we can see things clearer.
It is always hard knowing someone could/ would loose their job or freedom,
By reporting them but if they hadn’t done it then they wouldn’t be in this position, and most probably if they aren’t made to face the consequences they will feel even more powerful that they got away with it and do it again, if not to you to someone else, and you can count on them denying it ever happened in years to come too, saying you made it up or it’s in your head, or you are mad.
But you don’t need to decide yet and I like the idea of you both just doing as you planned
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