Hey Hun was just reading your last post , even though they r our abusers we actually get hooked to them like a drug ,our body actually adapts to abuse we r so trap. So when they go or we leave them , even though peace is brill we r on edge as all we did was focus on them and there needs, prob feels unreal to be able to focus on yourself, u have trauma bonding too , I never thought it could be possible but as u fight to protect yourself and keep away it gets better , no contact helps, but small things can send triggers off

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