#7953
mixed-up mum
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Hi Foggy – oh its a minefield I’m quite sure indeed!!!!

I have never even thought about tackling that yet!! I just don’t feel ready, not mentally strong enough, and my head is not in the right place either.

I really have no idea how it all works, after 2 year what is it that happens?? I’m so ignorant about all this, I’m so stupid.

I do have a lawyer, but have heard nothing in months, but then I am in no hurry to get divorced as I said.

All I went to her for was to make sure I was safe enough to agree to what he wanted re our house.
He says he wants to keep the house, but can’t afford to pay me my share just now and if I will wait 5 years I will get it then,…I did not promise this & said we would review the situation in 2 years.

I guess its still me being comlpient, and too scared to go against his wishes, but at the same time I’m OK to wait, it does not bother me so long as I get what I’m due in the end.

Your ex is still trying to control every aspect of your life – deciding if/when you will get divorced!!!
He still had full control of YOUR money too – that needs to be sorted ASAP. If its a joint account you have every right to acess to it too. Your lawyer should have sorted that by now,

Chin up – keep going!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

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