mixed-up mum

Hi dalera – welcome!!! 🙂

He is taking control of you in many ways – he is making you spend your money, while he keeps his to himself.
He is making you feel guilty for spending you own money on yourself – any loving, caring boyfriend would not do that.

He will tell you that it’s you that is the problem – when in fact it is HIM. He may only be punching walls now – but don’t stay around and give him the chance for it to be you next time. Punching walls is just the start, normal boyfriends don’t do that – any relationship where there is violence of any kind is not good.

Probably no one else does make him agery, these abusive men often seem quite normal to the outside world, they are very good at putting on another face for everyone else to see – quite different from the one you see at home.

He will tell you no one else will want you – just to put fear in you that if you leave him you will be all alone forever – another means of control.

Good luck, stay strong – we’re here for you – so don’t be alone.

🙂 🙂 🙂

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