Hello Lilbird
its so good to ‘see you’ again, on the new forum, but sorry to hear you have been worrying about this latest development. What Lisa said has really hit home to me about ‘trying harder’. There isn’t anything you could have done to change things to a happy way for yourself and your boy, you weren’t going to be able to make him unabusive. Look at everything he ruined if you can, all that he has thrown away despite all your efforts to have a better life.
Thank you for replying on my ‘Refuge’ thread. Sending you lots of warm (((hugs))) you really have come such a long way away from him, and sometimes these meetings can send us a long way back and revisiting of our self-doubts i think, but you were right in coming as far as you have come, away from him.
warmest wishes ks x*x