Confused123 that sounds awful – it’s hard to ‘prove’ the truth if they don’t leave visible marks :/ my ex was the same, he was too ‘smart’ to leave bruises. I hope your counselling comes through soon, it really does help so so much xx
Thank you both for your messages… I spoke to the DC in charge of my case today and confided in her about the new man and my worries there. She told me I shouldn’t stay because I’m afraid that he could ruin me. She says that I can have relationships, however illadvised, and it can’t and won’t have any affect on my case as it’s irrelevant to what happened with my ex.
I ignored his phonecall for the first time ever today, sent him a quick text hours later and when he called back much later I told him I coudn’t talk and hung up.
Thank you for the advice… I feel a little better after talking to my DC about it. Just takes ending it now… xx