Hello there. I felt exactly the same. It’s because as human beings we crave what is ‘normal’ to us. Even if it’s dysfunctional and abusive. But these feelings will pass in time. Also, Google ‘trauma bonding’ in domestic abuse. You’re going to feel like a roller coaster but it will get better. It just takes time. Keep posting for support. I couldn’t have go this far without the support on here x stay strong. Leaving an abuser is like breaking a bad drug habit. Takes time and as much help as you can get. Call the helpline for help too x

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