Hi Starmoon
No you are not the abuser he is please call the helpline 0808 2000 247
And they will assure you that he is the abuser and help advise you
He will never change and if you take him back when he is ready he will keep on hurting you like they all do it only gets worse
If you look up trauma bonds it will start making sense
Big hugs xx

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