Unfortunately there’s nothing at all in my village…and I’ll have to speak to CAB before starting work to ensure I can still afford to live and childcare for my son. As for voluntary work…I asked at the pub in the next village and the car showroom but they dont need volunteers. We don’t even have a local shop or post office. The job centre don’t do anything and the buses are so expensive, and it’s about a half hour to the nearest town on the bus. Because of the age of my child i’m not on jobseekers alowance, am on income support, and won’t have to go back to work until he’s school-aged – can’t afford it either with the cost of childcare.

I wish I could block his number but something’s holding me back and I don’t know what. But there are definite things that make me feel plain awful…i struggle with sex anyway due to my ex…and it’s only been the past couple times he’s seemed to be headwork-y and a bit controlling with sex. I learnt on the Freedom programme that building you up to knock yoy back down is sexual control…and that’s what he’s doing now by instigating sexual activity and then rejecting my advances. Urgh ny head is very messed up?

Ayanna, I’m not sure what you mean hun?

Thank you for listening to my ranblings. Xx

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