Hi Hun

Well done for coping so well after he left, see u r so strong, we just dont realize how strong we r, i think after they leave we always ask our selves question was it me that caused his behaviour, i ask myself maybe i shouldnt of said no i dont love u any more, but hey he shouldnt of beat me up then i wouldn’t of needed to say it , they choose there behaviour and actions and use us an excuse that we provoked them, we reacted badly, well u know what it wasnt us, so u had emotional issues , that was prob cause of how he was treating u , again he made u think it was u, h ejnew u wanted kids and used that as your weakness, thx god hun u never had kids with him, my ex knew for long time i didnt want to be with him, was he desperate as hell to get me pregant with a third child, consttantly purposley having sex with me on and around my period to get me pregant, these men r just vile hun, dont feel guilty, he was trying to make u out to be wrong but u wasnt, reflecton how he treated u and ask yourself if that happened to some one else how would they of reacted, in abuse our emotional side is off balance but cause of abuse, wheni was in early stages of abuse id cry for what felt like no reason, but it was him playing a game with my mind, so dont feel bad hun , but do talk about your feelings so we can help u understand them , they use us like anything,

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