Am I in the wrong?

[Sunsetluv]

Hi everyone,

So I downloaded (detail removed by Moderator) app on my phone on (detail removed by Moderator) just to see if I (detail removed by Moderator) as my partner said I have been when I never did before. I recorded it on (detail removed by Moderator) only and was going to delete it.

I’m told my partner it recorded (detail removed by Moderator). He then flipped and said if this happens again you are out!  Calling it weird and my exs were all right about me. Saying I was annoying him, I was just recording to see if I (detail removed by Moderator) that was it but I’m made to feel bad. No one can do anything right by him, he even gets annoyed at his workers being off ill or on holiday. He’s just always angry now.

Thanks for reading my rant.

sunset luv x

[Lisa]

Hi Sunsetluv,

Thank you for sharing with us. I hope you are finding it helpful to offload to us here.

You aren’t in the wrong. Unfortunately abusive people will often turn things around to place the blame with others and also make things out to be a problem when it isn’t. This is part of the power and control an abusive person tries to hold over a person and relationship.

Keep posting when you can, we are here for you.

Best wishes,

Lisa
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