I’ve spent my whole relationship being lied to. Cheated on. Made to feel c**p. Compared. Made to compete.
This time he swears it’s different. But things don’t add up and yeh I do constantly question things
But does that make me mental like he says? And he’s told me that if I carry to think like I do he will hurt me so bad to how he hurt me the other week. And he will go and do what I’ve been thinking he’s been doing with other woman and I’ll have to deal with it
No it doesn’t make you mental. It makes you a victim of domestic abuse. Abusers makes us feel like we are crazy. It’s his crazy making behaviour. They lie and threaten and gaslight and won’t accept their behaviour is abusive. Contact your local women’s aid for help and read Living with the Dominator by Pat Craven as a start. His behaviour is illegal. Talk to the police domestic abuse unit. He sounds dangerous so don’t tell him you’re talking to others about his behaviour. Keep your phone on you fully charged at all times. And ring 999 if you feel in danger x