After (number removed by Moderator) decades he has completely changed, how can a lovely man, change just like that, its beyond me. Separated for (timeframe removed by Moderator) now, still living in the same house, anyone else?
I’m sorry that you’re going through this. It sounds really difficult and confusing. I know you’re not alone in still living with your abuser after separating, hopefully some of the other women will be able to reply and share their experiences with you soon.