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      Anonymous
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      So I have got back with him why am I so scared. What is wrong with me I hate myself for loving him so much.

    • #55560
      Anabela
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      Hello. There is nothing wrong with you. No wonder according to statistics women try leave 7 times before they leave for good. I had to prove those statistics myself.
      I so understand you. You know this relationship is wrong, you know you will never be happy with him, you wish you could remain strong and yet you need him like drug. Thats how i felt. You can always leave again and start no contact. You dont need a new argument, what happened in the past is enough. Carry on reading about abuse, and posting and you will get strong enough to leave again.xx

    • #55565
      endoftherainbow
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      The fact you have got back together and you are here posting tells you that its not going to work, but don’t be too hard on yourself, I left and went back many times until I came to the point I was strong enough. I have gone no contact and have a restraining order, its the only way I could do it as I still often have feelings for him. Its sad but true, no matter what people say or recommend, no one can make you stay away from him, its something that will happen when your ready. Hopefully you have friends who will support you even though you have gone back, and if not we are all here for you. I doubt there’s many people that left and never went back even once. Just remember, you don’t have to be stuck, there is so much help and support for you…..I wish you good luck, stay strong and big hugs x*x

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