This topic contains 3 replies, has 3 voices, and was last updated by  beachhut 1 week, 5 days ago.

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  • #115206

    Hi,. The heading says it all, really thought I was getting somewhere, but one big knock back and finding it hard to cope, the situation I find myself in since leaving is not how I wanted it to be, I never thought at my age I would be homeless, living out of boxes at a friend’s house and feeling the way I do. I really thought I was heading in the right direction but obviously not. I know one phone call could stop all of this, at the moment it is so tempting to make it.

  • #115208

    Hang in there beachhut. I know that feeling but it’s a real roller coaster ride. With highs and lows. You’re craving your normal, which is what we do as humans. But your normal is unhealthy abuse. This is one of the hardest parts. Breaking that cycle. Can you focus on moving further away each time you feel the pull back. Talk to solicitors, look for more suitable accommodation, plan for your future and keep going in that direction x

  • #115217

    Hang in there @beachut

    I know its easy to say but allow yourself to feel all these emotions, it will be hard and difficult but you are so strong and you can do this.take each day as it comes and keep pushing forward however bad your feeling. Sending you a big hug xx

  • #115228

    Thank you ladies for your kind words and encouragement, it means a lot when you have a wobble.

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