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      Silverheart
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      Today has been such a rough day but I think it’s all just a build up really! For so many years my ex has been harassing me, then (detail removed by moderator) he left a horrible voice mail admitting to forcing me and recent ex apart, his words were if I can’t have you no one else is going to! Unfortunately me and my ex did split up because of the constant pressure from him. That was the nail in the coffin for me so I set very strict boundaries regarding me and the kids. It was going okay until (detail removed by moderator), out with the kids and my phone died, was out for (detail removed by moderator), got home charged my phone and I have (detail removed by moderator)  missed calls (detail removed by moderator) missed FaceTimes, (detail removed by moderator) messages, (detail removed by moderator) voicemails. Angry voicemails then voicemails of him crying saying I was stopping him from speaking to the kids. May I add he actually FaceTimed them (detail removed by moderator) and spoke to my son earlier!! He wanted to say goodnight so just to end all the harassment I agreed to let him speak to them but he was crying so I said if you can’t control yourself while talking to them then you can’t speak to them as I worry it will make the kids panic. I also know from experience the crying is just mind games. I’ve said next time i will call the police and all I get is (detail removed by moderator). Im so exhausted all this over my phone dying! Not much point to this really I just needed to vent!

    • #106667
      KIP.
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      Don’t wait till next time. Involve the police now. It’s stalking and harrassment.

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