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      Moonsky
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      Does anybody ever feel the calm before the storm before it happens. I alway feel it and generally am alway right the storm always comes when I feel this.

      Even though I am no longer with him and have no direct contact with him. Any contact is done between a mutual person and I don’t directly see him for pick up/ drop ups. But there is always a switch with the way he txts our kid or the way the mutual person also goes silent it’s like they are also waiting for the storm to come. He has an overnight and dropping child back (detail removed by Moderator) and I feel like (detail removed by Moderator) is the day something is going to happen.

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      KIP.
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      There is a cycle of abuse in a relationship that we become tuned into. That cycle stays with us for a long time after we split too. Google the cycle of abuse. I found recovery came in that cycle to. The walking on egg shells then the explosion of anger then back to calmness or love bombing.

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