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18th June 2017 at 9:15 pm #44303SsssParticipant
He leaves everything to me… purporosly leaving it all for me… I asked him something yes it had annoyed me… I asked him if he was going to clear the mess he,d made up. He replied what the hell does it have to do with you?… he the came at me and hit me on the head.. and picked up a knife and came at me with it… I ran and the childcame then so he put it down.. he had dirty water he came at me with that… me and the child had to baracade the door till he lost interest….. we are now being egnored… that was all to keep me quiet and scare me… obviously I am shaking and scared. If I make any amount of fuss he will kick me out as it’s his house….
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18th June 2017 at 9:24 pm #44304KIP.Participant
You are in danger staying there. If you could ring the helpline perhaps they could find you a place in a refuge until you find something permanent. Abuse always gets worse. He’s a dangerous bully and he has no boundary. Despicable man.
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18th June 2017 at 10:31 pm #44307SunshineRainflowerParticipant
So sorry to hear this, how awful and scary. He sounds very dangerous. Have you rung the helpline to make a plan to escape? Make sure he isn’t aware of any plans if so. Please ring the helpline, they will help you and the children get to a place of safety.
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18th June 2017 at 11:57 pm #44310AnonymousInactive
Hi hun
Please please get in touch with WAYou and your children need to be safe
It will only get worse hun .
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19th June 2017 at 3:47 pm #44329Confused123Participant
hi hun
could you call a refgue and get a space there, his putting u and your child at risk, get out b4 he hurts u or throws u out
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19th June 2017 at 8:59 pm #44342LisaMain Moderator
Hi Ssss,
This must have been such a frightening experience for you and your child. As already suggested please do contact the police, the 24hr National Domestic Violence Helpline (0808 2000 247) or your local support group to find out your options and to start the process of leaving. Abuse will escalate and I worry for you and your children’s safety.
Keep posting to us when you can, we are all here for you.
Best wishes,
Lisa
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19th June 2017 at 11:55 pm #44351SsssParticipant
Thankyou for all your support… i was finally able to speak to WA.. he was watching me like a hawk.. they were very helpful.. although he is being as nice as pie now.. Carnt do enough for me… although I kno it’s all an act… I kno I need to get from here for the kids sake.. the way we are living is noo good.. but I do feel like such a bad parent staying and subjecting them to this.. I hate myself for the horrible life we lead.. I am choosing to stay.. but it’s his fault.. yes I kno that .. but it’s my fault for staying and putting up with it…
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20th June 2017 at 7:51 am #44356Confused123Participant
Hi HUn
No parent wants to deliberetly put their kids through this, at least u are aware now the living arrangements are wrong and you need to get out with your kids, put a action plan in place to lave safely
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