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      Hi all,
      He has been nice because Christmas is coming and he likes to pretend in front of people we are the “happy family” little they know.
      I cannot leave, saving money. A refugee place it’s not for me. I am not moving my child from her incredible school.
      Any way, he has been inviting people during this days. I just wanted to go to the gym (detail removed by Moderator)
      . He said “if you leave the house I will leave our daughter alone” you are $$!!$$%%
      I didn’t go, how could I? The association told me I could call the police to keep record of this violence. I did. They said that it is not a crime to swear, they could not persecuted him from it.
      That is was wrong advice form the women aid
      Any advise, I can leave in (detail removed by Moderator) more months 🙁

    • #135205

      Contact your local women’s aid. Someone could go to the police station with you to make a statement. They can also help with finding legal advice and perhaps get a non molestation order or occupation order to have him removed. Keep any evidence of his behaviour and let your GP know so it’s logged.

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      Hi Overtherainbow2,

      Thank you for sharing with us.

      As KIP has suggested, contacting your local domestic abuse support service can be a great help with liaising on your behalf. They can also offer you ongoing emotional and practical support. You can find your local service via this link: If you are able to safely keep a log of any abuse then this is also helpful for evidence.

      Keep posting to us when you are able to.

      Best wishes,


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