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    • #72491
      maddog
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      Each time I have seen my ex (detail removed by Moderator) he has had a different solicitor. I know this one was different and anther one was a different sex. Is it normal to be represented by different people over the same issue? I know this is trivial. He is playing solicitor ping pong, that game which achieves nothing at all but costs £££££

    • #72494
      diymum@1
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      he will be dumping the solicitors that wont go along with what he wants. some solicitors will say/write anything as long as theyre earning. xx

    • #72495
      maddog
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      He has been using the same firm. The next letter will confirm or deny recent things. It’s just so odd seeing different people represent him. The last time my head was spinning a bit.

    • #72497
      diymum@1
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      ahh well if its the same firm its just who is available on the day. some solicitors go to trials that alst a few days. it does knock you off abit, you are supposed to see the same sheriff. id pre -empt he will deny all of it. if you can prove everything he will look d****d stupid xx

    • #72499
      maddog
      Participant

      Like a gp then or a bus driver. I would like that his solicitor told him to stop.

    • #72503
      KIP.
      Participant

      Why would they tell him to stop when they’re getting paid. My exes solicitor wrote the most horrendous rubbish. My solicitor actually had to write to tell them about the facts of law. Which I was paying for. Any common sense or common decency goes out the window. Just try to put up an emotional barrier. I pretended I was Meryll Streep. Choose and actress/character and hide behind that to distance yourself.

    • #72510
      diymum@1
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      hey maddog look at it like this once your done with this and it will be over in time this is probably the worst thing youll face again from here. ive had a few problems since this and they seem alot less significant. (detail removed by Moderator) is hard but use the time inbetween to get really strong. at least in kramer v kramer he had the decsency to stop for the sake of his child xx its true as above ignore him (detail removed by Moderator) i used to laugh away down my phone in a disguise, they hate when the see they cant get to you, my ex couldnt even look at me xx diy

    • #72513
      maddog
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      Meryll Streep! Brilliant! I wore my impenetrable cloak of doggy love.

      At least now he HAS to get his mail forwarded! It’s an expensive way to be told to do the obvious. It’s extraordinary behaviour. My solicitor prefers to keep out of court which is good.

    • #72515
      diymum@1
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      some times its best to take the bull by the horns and go to court – they absolutely s**t themselves because they know deep down theyve done wrong xx yeh Meryll and Dustin lol 🙂

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