Hi there,
I know you’ve struggled with the school previously, and that you’ve also had a local Women’s Aid worker previously. It might be an idea to contact your local Women’s Aid again and ask them for some advocacy with all of this; to see if they can contact the school for you and explain the situation to the safeguarding lead.
There’s also the NSPCC that you could speak to on 0808 800 5000, or Childline that your daughter could speak to on (0800 1111).
Take care,
Lisa